You don’t have to be a movie star to be irresistible. All it takes is a little psychology.
You Will NeedAn attractive target
A positive attitude
And a bit of braveryStep 1: Choose a personPick an object for your desire.
Step 2: Hold eye contactMake and hold eye contact for three seconds. This makes people a tad uncomfortable, which causes the brain to release phenyl ethylamine, the brain chemical that’s produced when we’re either very afraid — or falling in love!
Step 3: Smile & look awayOnce you’ve caught the person’s attention, smile and look away. After all, you don’t want to look like a lunatic.
Step 4: Relax arms & open palmsRelax your arms and open your palms. This sends the message, “I’m approachable.”
If you’re nervous, take a deep breath, hold it for a couple of seconds, and let it out. This will help you relax by providing oxygen to your brain.
Step 5: Lift head & straighten shouldersLift your head and straighten your shoulders. Confidence is attractive to everyone.
Step 6: Position bodyWhen a target arrives to chat, position your entire body in his or her direction, starting with your feet, to demonstrate your undivided attention.
Step 7: Ask lots of questionsAsk lots of questions. Research shows that when people are given a chance to talk about themselves, they rate the listener as extremely interesting!
Nod and smile in agreement while your target is talking. Not surprisingly, people like people who agree with them.
Step 8: Mirror person's movementsCasually begin mirroring the other person’s movements and positioning — people who like each other subconsciously align their movements, and you can create this harmony by doing it on purpose.
Step 9: Lean forwardLean forward as the person talks, which creates intimacy.
Step 10: Do something exhilaratingDo something exhilarating on your first date—see a horror movie, go to a rock concert, or ride a roller coaster. The more adrenaline-pumping, the better, because those love-slash-fear chemicals will create an instant bond between you two.
Fact
The average person falls in love seven times before marrying.
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